: Build a child's social brain by emphasizing the importance of "mindsight" in relationships—recognizing one's own feelings while being attuned to others.
: In high-stress moments, appeal to the child's "upstairs brain" by asking for their help or input, rather than triggering their "downstairs brain" with commands or threats. The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strateg...
: Help children pay attention to what is happening inside them—their physical sensations, mental images, feelings, and thoughts—to develop "mindsight." : Build a child's social brain by emphasizing
: Help children process difficult memories by "fast-forwarding" or "rewinding" the story as they tell it, giving them a sense of control over their experiences. : Use tools like the "Wheel of Awareness"
: Use tools like the "Wheel of Awareness" to help children focus on the hub of their mind rather than getting lost on the "rim" of intense distractions or emotions.
: When a child is upset, connect with their emotional right brain first through touch and empathy. Once they are calm, "redirect" to the logical left brain to discuss behavior.
: View arguments as a chance to teach social skills like repair and empathy, rather than just something to be avoided. Impact of the "Whole-Brain" Approach