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Sometimes we see our own worst traits reflected in our children, which triggers a defensive, negative reaction.

You are not alone in this struggle. Admitting you're struggling to "like" your son is the first step toward finding a path back to a relationship where love—and eventually, like—can flourish again. i-hate-my-son

When the Love is There, but the Like is Not: Navigating the Taboo of Parental Resentment Sometimes we see our own worst traits reflected

Constant battles over bedtime, chores, or school can wear down even the most patient caregiver. When the Love is There, but the Like

You can hate the constant screaming, the lying, or the disrespect without hating the human being behind it.

Research suggests focusing on three key moments: the first 3 minutes after waking, the 3 minutes after school, and the last 3 minutes before bed. Focusing on these small windows can help rebuild a sense of connection without feeling overwhelming.