Dilemma (lyrics) - Nelly Ft. Kelly Rowland May 2026

Directed by , the video is set in the fictional neighborhood of "Nellyville" and features cameos from Patti LaBelle (as Rowland's mother) and NBA player Larry Hughes (as her boyfriend).

: A scene where Rowland types a message to Nelly into a spreadsheet application on her Nokia 9210 Communicator has become a legendary internet meme. Nelly later explained it was simply "new technology at the time," while Rowland admitted she didn't realize it was a spreadsheet while filming. Dilemma (Lyrics) - Nelly ft. Kelly Rowland

: The central "dilemma" is the emotional tug-of-war between loyalty and desire. Nelly raps about his reluctance to "break up a happy home," yet admits he cannot stay away from his new neighbor. Directed by , the video is set in

: Kelly Rowland’s chorus— "No matter what I do, all I think about is you / Even when I'm with my boo" —captures the internal struggle of a woman conflicted about abandoning her existing relationship and family for a new spark. The Iconic Music Video : The central "dilemma" is the emotional tug-of-war